Which is not a normal thing for me but I just am having a day and thought I could vent my thoughts here!! So you may not want to read on and that is just fine.
But my thoughts are why do people seem to try to be mean a not care about me. I feel like I am trying very hard to be kind to everyone and NO one is kind back. I think people are two-faced liars and it makes me crazy, if you have a problem with me then let's talk. I hate when people say one thing then do another or talk behind backs is that not for JR. HIGH come on PEOPLE GROW UP!!!! People often judge me for my parenting skills (or lack there of) and it is NOT there business. What me and Calvin do with our kids is our choice good or BAD!! We should learn from our mistakes, and I am learning. I have been working a lot on being a better person but I find that others feel it is fake, well the thoughts in my heart are sincere and that is what matters, but I sure wish someone would give me credit. I am trying not to care but it really does BOTHER me if someone has a issue with me, I am sorry if I have ever offended anyone but I am very sarcastic!!! I will continue to be me and the ones who care about me will understand and THANK YOU!!!
Calvin is great and he puts up with my drama and insecurities a lot and I am grateful for that. At least his is who he is and NO ONE will change that (good or bad). A lot of this will not make any sense to people but without talking specifics that's as clear as I can make it. To all those "REAL" people THANK YOU FOR KEEPING IT REAL!!!!!
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Kenz, you should never have insecurities about what people think of you. I look at you and always admire the wonderful mother that you are. You would be amazed if you knew how many others would be jealous of you and what you have. Detach yourself from those who are judging - you don't need them to be a huge part of your life - only give them the time of day when absolutely necessary.
I have learned this: If someone feels the need to judge my parenting skills or anything else about me and talk about it either behind my back or make rude comments... it's cause they themselves are insecure and are totally JEALOUS! Why else would they feel the need?
Don't you feel insecure, you are a great mother and a wonderful person inside and out. I'm sorry someone or some people are making you feel this way. I love ya! :)
Sounds like you have had a bad day. I am sorry. I think we all think that way sometimes. Like we are put under a microscope by others, when they should just butt out.
I hope I have never offended ya.
And in your 25 random things, we are so alike.
Hope you have a better day. We need a girls weekend or something, cause I am feeling the same way.
Oh, and I was going to say, I look at you and your parenting, and am totally jealous. You seem to have it all together. My 3 year old still is not potty trained. I think you are doing a great job. I want to be your kid!
I hope you know how much i look up to you!! and i hope i can always keep it real with you i think you are an awesome mom/friend/wife/etc.. i hope you know how much i love you!! HAVE A BETTER DAY!! LOVE HAY-
does this person or persons even know you? you are the most amazing mom i've ever seen!!! you are patient and involved (more than 99.9% of moms) in your girls lives. you have your priorities right and i can't imagine anybody being able to think anything bad about you... unless they are jealous... and it sounds like they are. tomorrow after the boys get home from work i'm voting for a chocolate cupcake from dipity and a diet pepsi (cause the ch. cupcake is totally diet, too... ;)) and a good vent. have a better day and know that i love you, appriciate you, are jealous of you, and look up to you!!!
Yeah, I am one of those people who doesn't know the specifics of all this, but Kenz, good luck with everything! I know I haven't seen you for YEARS, but from what I can tell, you are a GREAT mom. I gotta agree, people are idiots and very insensitive most of the time.
Kenz,
I was so surprised to read that. I always look at you and think "Wow-she is such a great Mom".
You have always been such a great example to me.
People can be so judging. It kills me.
We need to get together. I have been having a rough few weeks too. Really let's play.
I'm so sorry that you're having a bad day. I think you are amazing and your girls are such sweethearts and I think they've learned it from you. People that make you feel that way don't deserve you to waste your thoughts on them. If you ever need to vent feel free to call me :) Hope tomorrow is better for you!
Well, my grand-daddy always said, "If you want to know a person, take them camping." So I figure I know you pretty well and I can say with all my heart, I want to be a mom just like you! I have watched you with your girls and I envy and admire how fun and over the top amazing you are. I totally understand bad days ( I live with my mother-in-law) so to whoever is making you feel bad, just give 'em the bird and go get that chocolate cupcake. Love ya!
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